I have been trying very hard to shield Gaby from the drama surrounding the last several days as a result of the incidents at her school. For all that this child has been through, she is still remarkably intuitive and still such a compassionate little soul. While I was sitting on the sofa enjoying a mental break from everything, courtesy of Jennifer Lawson's book, "Let's Pretend This Never Happened", Gaby asked me if she could talk to me for a little while. Never one to shy away from a conversation with my daughter, I told her that of course, we could chat for however long she would like to.
Gaby started by asking me, "Mom, when are we going home? Can we make sure we're home before Meg gets out of the Air Force, 'cause she's going home and I don't want to be here any more!"
I leaned over and kissed her head and told her, "I know, Gidget (her long time nick-name), I want to go home too. Right now we're here and we need to make the best of it, but maybe we can go back to Maine for another quick visit in the next couple of weeks. But this is where daddy works right now. It's where we live for a while."
Gaby smiled and said, "Oh promise me we can! I miss Miss Stephanie, Mr. Zach, Miss Kat, Beena and Honey (Miss Stephanie's cats), and I want to see Miss Abby and Miss Rachel, and go eat pasta at Ocean House Pizza, and visit the sea monster, skip stones with daddy into the ocean, and oh oh oh can we go back and see if the Seagull-Man is still feeding the birds at the lighthouse? Mom please say we can. That was really cool. OK well it was kinda scary too, but it was really cool!"
I chuckled and told her, "Woahhhh, Gidget, take a breath! Slow down. The seagull guy was pretty cool wasn't he? You know (I have made such an ass of myself in front of my children when it comes to to the birds and the bees...both literally and figuratively!) how much birds scare mommy, but I thought it was neat watching him feed all those birds and they'd just float there in the air, waiting their turn to take a cracker from his hand."
Gaby looked really thoughtful for a moment. By the look on her face, I was expecting her to make some sort of thoughtful observation about the man feeding the seagulls at Nubble Lighthouse. Instead, she piped up, "Mom, do you think that guy gets pooped on a lot, by all those birds?"
I couldn't help myself so I laughed, then laughed some more and told her, "I bet he does, if he feeds them as often as I think he does. The birds came right over to him before he even took out the first package of crackers. I don't remember seeing any birds drop anything on him, but then I was kinda scared the same thing was going to happen to me, standing there taking all of those photos!"
Gaby jumped off the couch and grabbed my hand and said, "That's right! You took a lot of pictures! Come on mom, let's go look at them!"
And with that, we walked down the hall and then into the room where the big computer with the huge monitor is (because I'm not getting any younger and the thought of editing hundreds of images on a minuscule notebook screen sends shooting pains through my eyeballs!), the one I use for editing photos, and we began looking through all the pictures I took while we were back home in Maine on holiday, especially the images of the Seagull-Man of Nubble Light!
When I first noticed this man standing there it was because literally hundreds of Seagulls were flocking to him. It was like he was the Justin Bieber of the bird world!
Normally, I'm pretty terrified of birds. I've been dive-bombed by an agry crow before, who had lost a member of it's murder thanks to the resident cat in the house I was living in at the time. I still have an angry scar on my arm thanks to that despicable bird. And the poor cat who caught the crow and then ate it? He lost an ear. I suppose I should be grateful that I only got a nasty cut and didn't end up getting Van-Gogh'd by a crow who was out for revenge.
Anyhow, I decided to stand back (I'm not stupid, I also didn't want to get crapped on by all those birds!), and start taking pictures.

The moment the gentleman reached into his jacket pocket the gulls started to hover in the air around him.
The gulls would literally just wait for a chance to take a cracker right from his hand.

One of the things that really struck me about this gentleman is the fact that he never ever didn't have a smile on his face. The entire time he was feeding the gulls, sleeve after sleeve of crackers, he always smiled.


While I stood there wondering how long it was going to be before I got a bird-bomb dropped on me from above, or worried about my camera and lens getting bombed, the Seagull-Man fed the birds by hand, cracker after cracker. There was no squabbling between birds, sort of like the kind you might find when you're sitting at McDonald's, the one closest to the Portland Headlight, throwing fries out the window to all the hovering seagulls...not that I've ever done that before. Under normal circumstances, feeding seagulls like that is akin to the avian version of The Hunger Games! But not for the Seagull-Man of Nubble Light!

After standing there watching him feed the seagulls for more than ten minutes and be awe-struck by the never-fading smile he always wore, I couldn't help but to smile too, despite the fact that I was absolutely sure I was going to be sporting some huge bird splats. For whatever it's worth, the birds didn't bomb him at all.
And they didn't get me either!
I'm glad Gaby asked me to look through all of our vacation photos with her. I needed to take a breather from all the emotion of the last few days and focus on something beautiful.

For a few moments I was able to go back in time and relive watching the smiling man with all the gulls, giggle at a beautiful little girl who managed to find a bunch of puppies on the beach, and inhale deeply and try and recapture the scent of salty sea air, and time spent with the people I love dearly.

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